we live in a sociaty where making money and becoming famous is seen as the ultimate success. We are told that if we study hard, get good grades, earn awards and get recognized , we will be happy. Yet, most of the time we feel unsatisfied when we follow the path we "should" follow.
Today, do exactly what you love! nothing will give your life more meaning than doing what you want to do, whether that is leaving public school to pursue your love of dance or be a freelance street painter
remeber , the journey to happiness won't always be easy becasue it may going against your parent's hopes, or it may mean pursuing something that isn't seen as "valuable" by the sociaty. Keep in mind the famous words of Robert Frost : I took the (road) less traveled by/And that has made all the difference" You are the only person wo knows what will make you fulfilled , so follow your unique path .
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You are not inferior

One of my fav quotes is from Eleanor Roosevelt " No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." This is totally true. If you feel intimated by someone , worry that nobody wants to be your friend , think that you aren't pretty, or believe that you are stupid and unathletic , it is because you have someone or something convince you of this . Today, amke Eleanor Roosevelt's words your mantra; repeat them to yourself all day. Don't believe that you worth less than your peers. Know in your heart that you just as wonderful as everyone around you, and remember that the negative things people say about you will only affect you if you let them.

love yourself

Did u know that there is something that can heal your hurt feelings, end your sense of self consciousness and give you a great deal of happiness ? It exists, it's free , and it's available to everyone --it's self love.
Self love is not been about being conceited and egotistical. It doesn't mean bragging , or putting someone else down to lift yourself up. Self love is about accepting yourself as you are . It's loving your mind even if it isn't the shape you want.It's allowing yourself to make mistakes instead of getting down on yourself for not being perfect. Start loving yourself today. Instead of thinking , "I'll love myself when I lose 2 kg "or "I would be a better person if I had a boyfriend", try thinkinmg ,"i love myself thw way I am, imprefections and all!' be gentle with yourself , and know that you are lovable.

A bright, warm sunshine in the midst of fear, depression, coldness, mistaken, shivering,helpness, hopeless, hunger and loneliness.......

 
Today, my dear friend send me this :
"wat happen to u? wht have this feeling?"
"hey.. dun depress still have me support you ...anything not happy just share wif me.. my ear give u..whenever i heard from u...u lift up my mood although i am tired , i 'm here for you.

you know who u are and if u are reading this, I just want to tell u something: You have touched someone's heart and this kindness will go recycle round and round and will eventually the goodness back to u. God know it and He give back the kindness to u , a stonger friendship and His blessing to u.

Someone email me this message 2day.
How true is it. I am deeply impacted.
 
"Everyday when you return from your school, whether or not it is from a secondary school, a junior collage, a polytechnic, or ITE, you would probably think that school sucks. All that work and torture under your lecturer's or teacher's homework or assignments, or tutorials... But think about this, i mean really think. All the time spent with your classmates, all the laughter, sorrows, and happiness of knowing that your friends are there in your class. Now imagine them gone, perhaps part of them or even all of them. You may not realise it, but when advancing into the next level of education, it is inevitable that some friends will be parting with you. What is all this you ask yourself, what I ask is of you to think, for those who received this mail, what do those people who were once or were still your classmates and friends meant to you. Anyone who has at least finished their o levels and has graduated from respective schools would know the feeling of parting with your classmates and friends. Not knowing when you still see them again. Perhaps the next day, the next week, month, years, or even decade. Perhaps one day, you would realised how bitter sweet those memories were, the fun you had with your classmates and friends. That is why ever so often when you asked someone which is the most fond memories they had in their years in education, they would often have that sadness in their eyes, but yet, they smile briefly. It's the memories of their school friends. Those unforgettable years of laughter and happiness in school. Each classmate had suffered under the same stresses in school. The teachers, whether they are kind or extremely strict. So treasure your schooling days, don't complain, because you never know when you will miss them dearly. And perhaps, shed a tear for those treasured times in your youth. ~~If this touches your heart, and reminded you of those classmates who brought happiness, laughter, colour to your life, you can pass it on, let your classmates know that although all these years, whether short or long, you still have not forgotten them.~~Let those whom are weak and tormented in the spirit find strength in this letter, knowing that someone still remembers them, and care for them. No matter the circumstances.
 
My view:
 When I had grown up, I realised that life is cruel and down to earth because chances are always happening and we are always got to move on to the next level no matter what have you got now. Life is like many chapters in a book. Every chapter close is another chapter beginning until the end of the chapters. every chapters of the book compiled to tell the story of your life and each chapter tells you a story at a period of your life

The Divine image

For mercy has a human heart
Pity a human face
And love , the human form divine
And peace, the human dress
 
Cruelty has a human heart
And jealousy a human face
 Terror the human form divine
And secrecy the human dress
 
william BLAKE , songs of innocence (The Divine Image)
 
These are wrote in my NYP organizer book in 2003. my 1st semester 3rd year